"I suspect that the exact same "Triad" model holds true for many adult
bullying situations as
well?"
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Deadly
Triadby W.
Finnerty. Thu Aug 17, 2006 11:52 "It’s a
deadly triad:
1) Bullies who
terrorize;
2) Bullied people who are afraid to do anything,
or who do not know what to do; and,
3) Bystanders - of
all kinds - who watch, participate, or look away, and who dismiss the incidents
as a normal part of
life."
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William
Finnerty wrote:
To: Bullyonline Yahoo Group
CC: National Bullying Helpline
From: William Finnerty
Date: Mon, 14 Aug 2006 12:24:55 +0100 (BST)
Subject:
[bullyonline] The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander - Breaking the Circle of
Violence.
"It’s a deadly triad: bullies who terrorize, bullied kids
who are afraid to tell, bystanders who watch, participate, or look away, and
adults who dismiss the incidents as a normal part of
childhood."
Hello Everyone,
Almost everything I have
found so far on this subject relates entirely to children, which I feel is more
than a little misleading in certain ways.
I suspect that the exact
same "Triad" model holds true for many adult bullying situations as
well?
It certainly does in my case: with literally dozens of
senior public officials (including
THREE European Court of
Human Rights judges) completely ignoring the the entire contents of the "To Whom
It May Concern" letter from my GP (medical doctor) at the address provided just
below:
http://www.europeancourtofhumanrightswilliamfinnerty.com/DrMcCavert28October2005/Letter.htm With
adults in mind, and the possibility of better adult healing processes through
improved understanding, I've changed the words in the above quote slightly so
that they might (?) now more usefully read: "It’s a deadly triad: 1) bullies who
terrorize; 2) bullied people who are afraid to do anything, or who do not know
what to do; and, 3) bystanders - of all kinds - who watch, participate, or look
away, and who dismiss the incidents as a normal part of life."
The
original quote comes from the following location:
http://heysonnie.wordpress.com/2006/06/25/the-bully-the-bullied-and-the-bystander/ More
general information on the "Deadly Triad" situation can be found at:
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&q=adult+bullying+triad+&btnG=Search Best
wishes to
all,
William.
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"bullied.academics"
wrote:
"My feelings are the same. If they choose to bully out of
work the decent person in order to protect themselves, while colleagues sit by
in silence and fear ..."
Related Link: http://www.europeancourtofhumanrightswilliamfinnerty.com/ =========================
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